The End of Misplaced Authority

The End of Misplaced Authority

“The End of Misplaced Authority” points to a quiet but radical shift:

It’s the moment when power stops living outside of you—in systems, roles, traditions, relationships, algorithms, gurus, institutions, or other people’s approval—and returns to where it was never meant to leave: your own discernment.

Here’s how the phrase breaks down:

Misplaced authority

Authority is misplaced when:

  • You trust external structures more than your lived experience

  • You let titles, trends, timelines, or “expert” narratives override your inner knowing

  • You defer to fear-based systems that benefit from your self-doubt

  • You confuse obedience with safety or legitimacy

It’s not that authority itself is wrong—it’s who’s holding it that’s the issue.

The end of it

“The end” doesn’t mean rebellion for rebellion’s sake. It means:

  • You stop outsourcing truth

  • You stop needing permission to trust your perception

  • You no longer collapse your intuition in the presence of confidence, hierarchy, or noise

  • You reclaim authorship over your inner life

It’s less dramatic than overthrow—and more like withdrawal of consent.

It looks like:

  • Listening to advice without surrendering your judgment

  • Choosing alignment over approval

  • Letting systems exist without letting them define you

  • Standing in “I decide” rather than “I’m waiting to be told”

Lavender’s Broadcast

PLATFORM + STRUCTURE UPDATE

Where the Newsletter Lives

Innergalactic newsletters are no longer sent through email.

They now live publicly on the site as their own archive, accessible through the menu.

Each monthly newsletter remains available in full and includes:

  • the monthly intention
  • announcements
  • archived audio files
  • reflections
  • incoming articles, stories, and content

Past themes remain accessible. For example, January’s focus on energetic reckoning can still be read or listened to in full at any time.

Email Use Going Forward

Email is now transactional only.

It will be used for:

  • receipts
  • access delivery
  • order confirmations
  • direct one-to-one communication

 

Email will no longer be used for publishing, marketing, or ongoing updates.

 

There are no automations or mailing sequences.

Email delivery for my newsletters proved to be unreliable, with messages landing in spam and adding unnecessary friction for both readers and me. Rather than forcing a system that wasn’t functioning well, I chose a structure that’s simpler, more stable, and easier to access.

How to Stay Connected

For direct contact, the Contact page is the best way to reach me. Or email me directly at

lavenderraye6@gmail.com

Updates and releases now flow through social media platforms that surface content reliably, without spam filters or required newsletter sign-ups.

  • Pinterest → discovery and search
  • YouTube → podcast versions of articles (new uploads every Sunday) and community tabs. Make sure to subscribe, link is below
  • Instagram → news, updates, dms, and additional content, give a follow if you haven’t and turn on notifications

All platforms link back to the Innergalactic site.

Shop & Digital Products

The shop is hosted on Gumroad, accessed through the Shop link on the site

This is where you’ll find:

  • digital products
  • ebooks
  • free offerings

Gumroad manages payments, delivery, receipts, and taxes, allowing the site to remain lightweight while maintaining reliability and trust.

Ongoing Observations

This structure isn’t rigid.

Innergalactic is still being built, and part of that process is observing what actually works—what supports consistency, clarity, and sustainability, and what quietly creates friction.

Some elements may change as I refine the system.

What won’t change is transparency.

Any updates to how things are organized, where content lives, or what I’m working on will always be shared inside these newsletters. This is where structural shifts, direction changes, and ongoing developments will be communicated clearly and directly.

This setup prioritizes:

  • clarity
  • accessibility
  • long-term reliability
  • minimal friction

Everything now lives where it functions best—for now, and with room to evolve.

The End of Misplaced Authority

The End of Misplaced Authority

“The End of Misplaced Authority” points to a quiet but radical shift:

It’s the moment when power stops living outside of you—in systems, roles, traditions, relationships, algorithms, gurus, institutions, or other people’s approval—and returns to where it was never meant to leave: your own discernment.

Here’s how the phrase breaks down:

Misplaced authority

Authority is misplaced when:

  • You trust external structures more than your lived experience

  • You let titles, trends, timelines, or “expert” narratives override your inner knowing

  • You defer to fear-based systems that benefit from your self-doubt

  • You confuse obedience with safety or legitimacy

It’s not that authority itself is wrong—it’s who’s holding it that’s the issue.

The end of it

“The end” doesn’t mean rebellion for rebellion’s sake. It means:

  • You stop outsourcing truth

  • You stop needing permission to trust your perception

  • You no longer collapse your intuition in the presence of confidence, hierarchy, or noise

  • You reclaim authorship over your inner life

It’s less dramatic than overthrow—and more like withdrawal of consent.

It looks like:

  • Listening to advice without surrendering your judgment

  • Choosing alignment over approval

  • Letting systems exist without letting them define you

  • Standing in “I decide” rather than “I’m waiting to be told”

Lavender’s Broadcasts

PLATFORM + STRUCTURE UPDATE

Where the Newsletter Lives

Innergalactic newsletters are no longer sent through email.

They now live publicly on the site as their own archive, accessible through the menu.

Each monthly newsletter remains available in full and includes:

  • the monthly intention
  • announcements
  • archived audio files
  • reflections
  • incoming articles, stories, and content

Past themes remain accessible. For example,

 January’s focus on energetic reckoning can still be read or listened to in full at any time.

Email Use Going Forward

Email is now transactional only.

It will be used for:

  • receipts
  • access delivery
  • order confirmations
  • direct one-to-one communication

Email will no longer be used for publishing, marketing, or ongoing updates.

There are no automations or mailing sequences.

Email delivery for my newsletters proved to be unreliable, with messages landing in spam and adding unnecessary friction for both readers and me. Rather than forcing a system that wasn’t functioning well, I chose a structure that’s simpler, more stable, and easier to access.

How to Stay Connected

For direct contact, the Contact page is the best way to reach me. Or email me directly at

lavenderraye6@gmail.com

Updates and releases now flow through social media platforms that surface content reliably, without spam filters or required newsletter sign-ups.

  • Pinterest → discovery and search
  • YouTube → podcast versions of articles (new uploads every Sunday) and community tabs. Make sure to subscribe, link is below
  • Instagram → news, updates, dms, and additional content, give a follow if you haven’t and turn on notifications

All platforms link back to the Innergalactic site.

Shop & Digital Products

The Innergalactic shop is hosted on Gumroad, accessed through the Shop link on the site

This is where you’ll find:

  • digital products
  • ebooks
  • free offerings

Gumroad manages payments, delivery, receipts, and taxes, allowing the site to remain lightweight while maintaining reliability and trust.

 Ongoing Observations

This structure isn’t rigid.

Innergalactic is still being built, and part of that process is observing what actually works—what supports consistency, clarity, and sustainability, and what quietly creates friction.

Some elements may change as I refine the system.

What won’t change is transparency.

Any updates to how things are organized, where content lives, or what I’m working on will always be shared inside these newsletters. This is where structural shifts, direction changes, and ongoing developments will be communicated clearly and directly.

This setup prioritizes:

  • clarity
  • accessibility
  • long-term reliability
  • minimal friction

Everything now lives where it functions best—for now, and with room to evolve.

New Articles

February’s content is organized around one central deconstruction:

who or what has been holding authority over the inner life—and what happens when that authority is returned to its proper place.

I AM AS I AM

This piece examines authority at the level of intimacy and access.

It examines how inherited narratives, circumstances, and pressure quietly replace internal reference points—and how clarity restores self-trust without performance, correction, or denial.

This article focuses on:

  • separating what’s inherited from what’s innate
  • deconstructing the belief that circumstances define essence
  • returning authority to what remains stable under pressure

ON DESIRE, DISCERNMENT, & SELF-POSSESSION

February’s content is organized around one central deconstruction:

It looks at how desire becomes distorted when it’s sourced from lack, urgency, or nervous system disregulation—and how discernment restores self-possession.

This article focuses on:

  • the difference between desire from lack and desire from wholeness
  • misidentified attraction vs grounded discernment
  • protecting the life you’re building from self-betrayal

These releases are meant to stand on their own, offering moments of pause rather than explanation.

New Articles

New Articles

February’s content is organized around one central deconstruction:

who or what has been holding authority over the inner life—and what happens when that authority is returned to its proper place.

I AM AS I AM

This piece examines authority at the level of intimacy and access.

It examines how inherited narratives, circumstances, and pressure quietly replace internal reference points—and how clarity restores self-trust without performance, correction, or denial.

This article focuses on:

  • separating what’s inherited from what’s innate
  • deconstructing the belief that circumstances define essence
  • returning authority to what remains stable under pressure

ON DESIRE, DISCERNMENT, & SELF-POSSESSION

February’s content is organized around one central deconstruction:

It looks at how desire becomes distorted when it’s sourced from lack, urgency, or nervous system disregulation—and how discernment restores self-possession.

This article focuses on:

  • the difference between desire from lack and desire from wholeness
  • misidentified attraction vs grounded discernment
  • protecting the life you’re building from self-betrayal

These releases are meant to stand on their own, offering moments of pause rather than explanation.

This Month’s COLLECTION

This Month’s COLLECTION

I’m also sharing an introspective freebie and a paid guide this month.

The freebie is a self-reflection check — something you can return to when you feel pulled, reactive, or unclear, and want to see what’s influencing your decisions and emotions.

The Guide goes deeper. It maps how inherited conditioning becomes identity, how authority gets misplaced, and how to return decision-making back to yourself. It’s structured, linear, and meant to be read straight through.

A Month of Energetic Reckoning

What Does Energetic Reckoning Mean?

A month of energetic reckoning isn’t doom, it’s accuracy. It’s when life stops letting you gloss over things you’ve been spiritually, emotionally, or mentally “carrying without looking at.”

Here’s what it actually means in grounded, human terms:

What reckoning looks like energetically

It’s when the energy of the month forces you to see the real cost of something — a habit, a pattern, a belief, a connection, a way you’ve been moving. Not as punishment, but as clarity finally catching up to you.

It’s the moment where:

  • what you’ve been avoiding becomes unavoidable

  • what you’ve been tolerating feels too heavy

  • what you’ve been pretending is fine suddenly isn’t

  • what you desire demands you to meet it honestly

Reckoning = life putting the truth on the table and asking, “So what are you going to do with this?”

It’s not chaos — it’s a recalibration

Energetic reckoning isn’t the universe attacking you.
It’s the universe removing the wiggle room.

It brings you face-to-face with:

  • the gap between who you are and who you say you want to be

  • the emotional debt you’ve been ignoring

  • the versions of yourself that no longer fit

  • the “almost right” situations draining your nervous system

It’s basically your energy saying, “We can’t run on these settings anymore.”

How it feels internally

People usually describe this kind of month as:

  • confronting

  • clarifying

  • emotionally raw

  • relieving (after the initial discomfort)

  • grounding

  • like you’re being asked to grow up, energetically

It’s not about punishment.
It’s about alignment catching up to you.

The deeper meaning

A month of reckoning is an energetic checkpoint:

Are you living in integrity with your truth?
Are you holding onto things you’ve outgrown?
Are you avoiding necessary endings or overdue beginnings?
Are you acting like someone you’re no longer willing to be?

Reckoning exposes the misalignment so you can’t keep orbiting the same loop.

Why it’s actually a good sign

Reckoning only appears when you’re ready to evolve.
It means your system is strong enough to handle honesty.

It’s the precursor to:

  • breakthroughs

  • redirection

  • renewal

  • self-respect

  • deeper clarity

  • emotional maturity

Reckoning clears the static so the real guidance can come through.

A Month of Energetic Reckoning

What Does Energetic Reckoning Mean?

A month of energetic reckoning isn’t doom, it’s accuracy. It’s when life stops letting you gloss over things you’ve been spiritually, emotionally, or mentally “carrying without looking at.”

Here’s what it actually means in grounded, human terms:

What reckoning looks like energetically

It’s when the energy of the month forces you to see the real cost of something — a habit, a pattern, a belief, a connection, a way you’ve been moving. Not as punishment, but as clarity finally catching up to you.

It’s the moment where:

  • what you’ve been avoiding becomes unavoidable

  • what you’ve been tolerating feels too heavy

  • what you’ve been pretending is fine suddenly isn’t

  • what you desire demands you to meet it honestly

Reckoning = life putting the truth on the table and asking, “So what are you going to do with this?”

It’s not chaos — it’s a recalibration

Energetic reckoning isn’t the universe attacking you.
It’s the universe removing the wiggle room.

It brings you face-to-face with:

  • the gap between who you are and who you say you want to be

  • the emotional debt you’ve been ignoring

  • the versions of yourself that no longer fit

  • the “almost right” situations draining your nervous system

It’s basically your energy saying, “We can’t run on these settings anymore.”

How it feels internally

People usually describe this kind of month as:

  • confronting

  • clarifying

  • emotionally raw

  • relieving (after the initial discomfort)

  • grounding

  • like you’re being asked to grow up, energetically

It’s not about punishment.
It’s about alignment catching up to you.

The deeper meaning

A month of reckoning is an energetic checkpoint:

Are you living in integrity with your truth?
Are you holding onto things you’ve outgrown?
Are you avoiding necessary endings or overdue beginnings?
Are you acting like someone you’re no longer willing to be?

Reckoning exposes the misalignment so you can’t keep orbiting the same loop.

Why it’s actually a good sign

Reckoning only appears when you’re ready to evolve.
It means your system is strong enough to handle honesty.

It’s the precursor to:

  • breakthroughs

  • redirection

  • renewal

  • self-respect

  • deeper clarity

  • emotional maturity

Reckoning clears the static so the real guidance can come through.

A Month of Energetic Reckoning

What Does Energetic Reckoning Mean?

A month of energetic reckoning isn’t doom, it’s accuracy. It’s when life stops letting you gloss over things you’ve been spiritually, emotionally, or mentally “carrying without looking at.”

Here’s what it actually means in grounded, human terms:

What reckoning looks like energetically

It’s when the energy of the month forces you to see the real cost of something — a habit, a pattern, a belief, a connection, a way you’ve been moving. Not as punishment, but as clarity finally catching up to you.

It’s the moment where:

  • what you’ve been avoiding becomes unavoidable

  • what you’ve been tolerating feels too heavy

  • what you’ve been pretending is fine suddenly isn’t

  • what you desire demands you to meet it honestly

Reckoning = life putting the truth on the table and asking, “So what are you going to do with this?”

It’s not chaos — it’s a recalibration

Energetic reckoning isn’t the universe attacking you.
It’s the universe removing the wiggle room.

It brings you face-to-face with:

  • the gap between who you are and who you say you want to be

  • the emotional debt you’ve been ignoring

  • the versions of yourself that no longer fit

  • the “almost right” situations draining your nervous system

It’s basically your energy saying, “We can’t run on these settings anymore.”

How it feels internally

People usually describe this kind of month as:

  • confronting

  • clarifying

  • emotionally raw

  • relieving (after the initial discomfort)

  • grounding

  • like you’re being asked to grow up, energetically

It’s not about punishment.
It’s about alignment catching up to you.

The deeper meaning

A month of reckoning is an energetic checkpoint:

Are you living in integrity with your truth?
Are you holding onto things you’ve outgrown?
Are you avoiding necessary endings or overdue beginnings?
Are you acting like someone you’re no longer willing to be?

Reckoning exposes the misalignment so you can’t keep orbiting the same loop.

Why it’s actually a good sign

Reckoning only appears when you’re ready to evolve.
It means your system is strong enough to handle honesty.

It’s the precursor to:

  • breakthroughs

  • redirection

  • renewal

  • self-respect

  • deeper clarity

  • emotional maturity

Reckoning clears the static so the real guidance can come through.

New Articles

New Articles

New Articles